I have been dating a lady for some three years now. Over 6 months ago when I felt that the relationship had matured enough I took the bold step to introduce her to my parents, this is where the trouble began. My father, who I respect a lot, started giving me subtle warnings. He has already had one or two dreams about her, one time he told me his spirit doesn’t click with hers. I respect my father’s judgment in a lot of things and he generally gives good direction but I am somehow reluctant to follow him in this case.
One of the reasons is that I have been dating the lady and she has been nothing but good to me. Besides, I have personally prayed about the issue and I don’t feel God is giving me any caution about her. My father is also insistent that there’s something off about my lady and that I should drop her. I am so confused. I had to lie to him that I am not dating her anymore even though I do. What should I do?