I have been married for 4 years now, it’s been a terrible experience overall. I have been in there all this while believing for a turnaround in the situations that have made marriage hellish for me and him (I believe). I would not like to disclose the specifics of the things that have made the marriage unbearable for me but there have been instances of verbal and even physical abuse. Jesus taught that besides infidelity there is no other justifiable ground for divorce, this is one of the key things that has kept me going despite the sometimes unbearable pain. Brothers and sisters I am slowly getting to the breaking point, I have been praying that one way or the other I’ll catch him cheating so that I feel completely free to leave him but that has not happened. I don’t want to disobey the word of God but I feel I am slowly falling apart. It’s not infidelity but can I get divorce, please?