Help!! I’m being “Papa” zoned

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Help!! I’m being “Papa” zoned

Hello brethren, I am christian of 27 years and I need help with something that is becoming a big issue. I serve the Lord the best He gives me Grace to. Same Grace has put me in a place of leadership in the ministry. I have reached the age where I feel I am mentally matured and spiritually ready to start a relationship that could lead to marriage. I was initially reluctant to approach any of the ladies in my church because of the repercussion especially if I get bounced. I talked to our leader and he cleared me to go ahead since I spend so much time in church and I am unlikely to know any outsider well enough. In getting close to the first lady I liked I realized that the kind of respect she had for me as an “ojacious” leader didn’t allow her to relrate with me at a certain level. She chose rather to date someone else. The lady I have now set my sight on, I feel is starting to give me the same vibe, she for example prefers to call me “Papa” instead of my first name, I feel I am being “Papa zoned”  again, help me because I don’t want to make so many attempts in the same church. This is becoming

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